Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Slums and Dowries

One of the programs I am working with in Jaipur offers pre-departure training to emotionally prepare volunteers for slum living. Since this training is in London I will be missing out, so I decided to do some research to prepare. 

Turns out, Slumdog Millionaire was not far off, Indian slums often resemble heaps of garbage dotted with feces and skinny kids (I mean Vogue skinny). Infact, one article suggested that it was a testament to India's commitment to democracy that it had not gone in and eliminated these areas. The slums suffer from inadequate access to safe water, lack of sanitation, overcrowding, absence of infrastructure, and insecure residential status. These conditions breed crime, mental illness, disease, drug/alcohol addiction problems and suicide. Scarier yet is the demographic breakdown of these slums, which is on average 68% female and 12% children under six years old. In other words there are over 27 million women and 5 million children living in these Indian slums today. 

The cycle of poverty found in the slums wraps tightly around Indian women because of the dowry system. For those of you who do not know, a dowry is a gift (typically money, goods, or real estate) given to the groom by the bride's family. Since ancient times the dowry has served as 'seed money' to help the husband provide for the new family and as an incentive for the husband to treat his new bride well. 


Today, the dowry system in India is like smoking weed or downloading music in the US, it is both illegal and widely practiced (and defended). One Indian blogger explains "it is so deeply rooted in Indian culture, that sometimes one feels that there's going to be no way out"[see full]With the wedding industry taking off, modern dowries include refrigerators, TVs, washing machines, cars, and jewelry; families use dowries as an opportunity to flaunt their wealth. So what's wrong with a wife/free video ipod? While dowries may seem harmless in theory, their effects are devastating. Refusing to pay a dowry can get a bride killed; conservative estimates place the dowry death toll at 50,000 in the last decade in India alone. India in particular has a dark tradition of 'bride burning' in which the woman is doused with kerosene or gasoline and set on fire in the event that the groom deems the dowry inadequate. How common are these human campfires? CNN reports that Indian officials receive over 2,500 reports of bride burning each year--that's one woman every 3.5 hours. 



However, let me paint a complete picture. While dowry related deaths and female slum populations are still a major problem, India is not entirely archaic when it comes to women's rights. Thanks to a bunch of hippie activists in the 1970s and the highly public Mathura Rape case, the ball is rolling (pun intended). Women participate in activities such as education, politics, art, science, and technology. Yet just as Manhattan differs from Cripple Creek, so does India suffer drastic stratification of values and ideologies. Among these ideological differences,  women's rights is somewhat of a hot topic, like Arizona's immigration policy or Kim Kardashian's summer bod. Same thing. 

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Many Thanks


Before I begin I want to say thank you to everyone who has given me their time, money, and patience to make this outreach project possible (and sorry to those I drugged and robbed and covered in curry). I hope by sharing my experiences in India I am enlarging the footprint of these efforts. 

I’m not promising that anything transformative, profound, or even worthwhile will be shared here, but my hope is that maybe something will ‘get you.’ Maybe one of you will wade through all my bullshit quotes, tiring self-awareness, and corny jokes and somehow find something restorative in what you have helped to accomplish—something that makes you proud of yourself and hopeful of others. 

For those of you who don’t know the plans, here is a breakdown of my travel itinerary:

India   10/18 – 12/30
         - Slum Volunteer specializing in Female Empowerment
                     Jaipur, Rajasthan 6 weeks
The first six weeks spent in Jaipur will comprise the majority of my time in India. It will also be the most trying. Here I will confront extreme poverty, working closely with young women in the slums. The goal is to help Indian women thwart institutional poverty perpetuated by the nature of the slums and the dowry system. In other words, I will be teaching them something my mom would argue I know nothing about: financial self-reliance. We will cover how to build a resume, get a job, manage a budget, use computers and software, harness vocational skills, and speak to men in a professional setting. Above all, we are there to build confidence. As the program director explained to me, "do not underestimate the effect that you will have just being around these women," because they take cues from the assertiveness of their western counterparts and internalize these attitudes. 

         - Volunteer for local children/school system
                     Kerala 3 weeks

In Kerala I will spend 3 weeks helping to renovate a local school. I have yet to recieve my specific assignment, but tasks include physical construction of the school, tending to the local gardens, teaching basic math and English, or educating the children on health and hygiene (Chip I can hear you laughing). While in Kerala I will also be studying Yoga and Ayurveda with the local master as part of the program's cultural exchange.

After India my travels will take me back to Boston for a month, followed by Italy, Turkey and hopefully Japan. 


If you would like to make a donation you can make your check out to "Women and Children Project India or Lindsey Swanson" and mail to:
Lindsey Swanson
18 Whittier Ave. 
Saugus, MA 01906

Thanks again, and stay tuned! 

Note: All fundraising efforts are solely funding the service work in India. I will be working to support myself in the other countries.

Also Note: Those who comment on this trip’s resemblance to bestselling novel Eat Pray Love will be spammed excessively with inflatophilia porn.